Wanting More (Hardback)

A New Generation of Girls+ on Love, Sex, Porn, Social Media and Deserving Better

Peggy Orenstein

An urgent portrait of sexuality today from the author of New York Times bestseller Girls & Sex

Award-winning author and journalist Peggy Orenstein explores how a new generation of young women experiences sex, gender and pleasure

Across the world, young people are having sex later and less often than ever before. Their early sexual experiences happen through screens; their real-world relationships are distorted by deepfakes, rewritten by extreme pornography and polarised by politics. In this brave new world, it may come as no surprise that for a new generation of girls, sex is more fraught than ever.

Reporting from the front lines of the sexual landscape, Peggy Orenstein draws on hundreds of interviews with young women to examine their generation's reluctance to engage with men and the cynical, violent or simply boring encounters that result when they do. With her characteristic intimacy and urgency, Peggy's thought-provoking research ultimately comes down to one thing: young women just want more.

PRAISE FOR PEGGY ORENSTEIN:

'Girls & Sex should be mandatory for anyone who cares about the present and future cultural landscape for girls, women, humans' Rashida Jones

'Peggy Orenstein holds a mirror not only to girls' experiences but to our own judgements' Rosalind Wiseman, author of Queen Bees and Wannabes

'Girls & Sex may do more to change how sex education is rethought and how parents and daughters discuss pleasure and sexuality than any book since the landmark Our Bodies, Ourselves' San Francisco Chronicle

Publication date: April 1, 2027

£14.99

ISBN: 9781806493159

Imprint: Souvenir Press

Subject: Health & Wellbeing

Wanting More (Ebook)

A New Generation of Girls+ on Love, Sex, Porn, Social Media and Deserving Better

Peggy Orenstein

An urgent portrait of sexuality today from the author of New York Times bestseller Girls & Sex

Award-winning author and journalist Peggy Orenstein explores how a new generation of young women experiences sex, gender and pleasure

Across the world, young people are having sex later and less often than ever before. Their early sexual experiences happen through screens; their real-world relationships are distorted by deepfakes, rewritten by extreme pornography and polarised by politics. In this brave new world, it may come as no surprise that for a new generation of girls, sex is more fraught than ever.

Reporting from the front lines of the sexual landscape, Peggy Orenstein draws on hundreds of interviews with young women to examine their generation's reluctance to engage with men and the cynical, violent or simply boring encounters that result when they do. With her characteristic intimacy and urgency, Peggy's thought-provoking research ultimately comes down to one thing: young women just want more.

PRAISE FOR PEGGY ORENSTEIN:

'Girls & Sex should be mandatory for anyone who cares about the present and future cultural landscape for girls, women, humans' Rashida Jones

'Peggy Orenstein holds a mirror not only to girls' experiences but to our own judgements' Rosalind Wiseman, author of Queen Bees and Wannabes

'Girls & Sex may do more to change how sex education is rethought and how parents and daughters discuss pleasure and sexuality than any book since the landmark Our Bodies, Ourselves' San Francisco Chronicle

Publication date: April 1, 2027

£11.99

ISBN: 9781806493166

ISBN 10 / ASIN: B0H7LGFN2T

Imprint: Souvenir Press

Subject: Health & Wellbeing

Wanting More (Audiobook)

A New Generation of Girls+ on Love, Sex, Porn, Social Media and Deserving Better

Peggy Orenstein

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An urgent portrait of sexuality today from the author of New York Times bestseller Girls & Sex

Award-winning author and journalist Peggy Orenstein explores how a new generation of young women experiences sex, gender and pleasure

Across the world, young people are having sex later and less often than ever before. Their early sexual experiences happen through screens; their real-world relationships are distorted by deepfakes, rewritten by extreme pornography and polarised by politics. In this brave new world, it may come as no surprise that for a new generation of girls, sex is more fraught than ever.

Reporting from the front lines of the sexual landscape, Peggy Orenstein draws on hundreds of interviews with young women to examine their generation's reluctance to engage with men and the cynical, violent or simply boring encounters that result when they do. With her characteristic intimacy and urgency, Peggy's thought-provoking research ultimately comes down to one thing: young women just want more.

PRAISE FOR PEGGY ORENSTEIN:

'Girls & Sex should be mandatory for anyone who cares about the present and future cultural landscape for girls, women, humans' Rashida Jones

'Peggy Orenstein holds a mirror not only to girls' experiences but to our own judgements' Rosalind Wiseman, author of Queen Bees and Wannabes

'Girls & Sex may do more to change how sex education is rethought and how parents and daughters discuss pleasure and sexuality than any book since the landmark Our Bodies, Ourselves' San Francisco Chronicle

Publication date: April 1, 2027

£24.99

ISBN: 9781806493500

Imprint: Souvenir Press

Subject: Health & Wellbeing

Reviews for Wanting More

'Praise for Girls & Sex'

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'A vital work for parents and teachers of teenagers'

 Observer, Books of the Year

'Peggy Orenstein sheds light on an important and too often misunderstood topic. Her reporting shows how a healthy and direct approach to sexuality is a key component of gender equality'

Sheryl Sandberg, former COO of Meta 

'Fascinating. . . A wise and sharply argued look at how girls are navigating the complicated new landscape of sex and sexuality'

 Economist

'Thought-provoking. . . Girls & Sex is full of thoughtful concern and empathetic questions'

 New York Times

'If you're going to talk about women in the 21st century, you MUST read Peggy Orenstein's Girls & Sex. No one else is asking these questions; so no one else, then, is finding out the answers'

Caitlin Moran 

'Girls & Sex should be mandatory for anyone who cares about the present and future cultural landscape for girls, women, humans'

Rashida Jones 

'I'm not going to tell you to go right now and buy a copy. . . I'm going to tell you to buy two copies: One for yourself, and one for the teenager in your life'

 Salon

'Thoughtful, empathetic'

 Times Literary Supplement

'A nuanced read for anyone who remembers being a young woman and anyone who is raising the next generation of girls (and boys) for whom we hope the future holds sexual satisfaction, not pain or disappointment'

Rebecca Traister More

'Sex and teenagers have always gone together, but parents reading Orenstein's frank exploration of current trends may still be in for a shock. . . This isn't a comfortable book to read (Orenstein herself admits twinges a few times), but it's an important one'

 Booklist

'Orenstein is such a breezy, funny, writer, it's easy to forget she's an important thinker too'

 People

'Praise for Boys & Sex'

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'Blows your mind on every page'

Caitlin Moran 

'I can't think of a more important book for our times . . . Should be mandatory reading for anyone who cares about the next generation'

Lori Gottlieb, author of Maybe You Should Talk to Someone 

'A stunning portrait of young men in quiet crisis'

 GQ

'Both an examination of sexual culture and a guide on how to improve it'

 Washington Post

'Peggy Orenstein sheds light on a sensitive and too often misunderstood issue. . . Her reporting on sexuality is insightful'

Sheryl Sandberg, former COO of Meta 

'Every few pages, the boy world cracks open a little bit ... Even in the most anxiety-provoking moments of Boys & Sex, it's clear that Orenstein believes in the goodness of boys and the men they can become'

 New York Times

'A clear-eyed portrait of how toxic masculinity takes root-and how we must course-correct in raising our boys before it's too late'

 Esquire

'Broadly welcomed by men as well as well as women'

 Observer

'An affirmation of hope, and an exercise in the power of listening'

 Salon

'A sobering look at the landscape in which young men are growing up'

 Chicago Tribune

'Expertly written. . . A candid and fascinating portrait of young American masculinity'

 Publishers Weekly

'A brisk, bracing read'

 Men’s Health

'Eye-opening and compassionate'

The Good Men Project 

Peggy Orenstein

Peggy Orenstein

Peggy Orenstein is the New York Times bestselling author of Girls & Sex, Boys & Sex and Cinderella Ate My Daughter. A contributing writer for New York Times Magazine, her work has appeared in publications including USA Today, Parenting, Salon and New Yorker. She lives in Northern California with her husband and daughter.